docs(deb): document the Debian .deb build environment

The .deb recipe already lives in Cargo.toml's [package.metadata.deb], but the
build *environment* (bookworm distrobox, glibc floor, the mandatory separate
CARGO_TARGET_DIR) was only captured in handoff notes. Add a packaging/debian
README so the deb path is as self-documenting as the Arch + AppImage paths.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

packaging/debian/README.md

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+# Debian / Ubuntu `.deb` build
+
+This documents how the `peerspeak_*.deb` is produced, so the deb path is as
+self-documenting as the Arch (`packaging/PKGBUILD`) and AppImage paths.
+
+The deb **recipe itself** lives in-repo as the `[package.metadata.deb]` block in
+the top-level `Cargo.toml` (cargo-deb's equivalent of a PKGBUILD). This file
+documents only the **build environment**, which is otherwise undiscoverable from
+a fresh clone.
+
+## TL;DR
+
+```sh
+# one-time: create + provision the build box (see "Build environment" below)
+distrobox enter peerspeak-bookworm -- bash -lc '
+  source ~/.cargo/env
+  cd ~/git/butter/peerspeak
+  export CARGO_TARGET_DIR=~/.cache/cargo-deb-targets/peerspeak   # MANDATORY, see below
+  cargo deb
+'
+# output: $CARGO_TARGET_DIR/debian/peerspeak_<version>-1_amd64.deb
+```
+
+## Build environment
+
+- **Base: a Debian 12 (bookworm) distrobox named `peerspeak-bookworm`.**
+  Created with `distrobox create --name peerspeak-bookworm --image debian:12`.
+  Bookworm ships **glibc 2.36**, which sets the widest practical compatibility
+  floor (see "glibc floor" below).
+- **NEVER build the `.deb` on the Arch host.** Two independent reasons:
+  1. The Arch host's glibc is far newer, so the resulting `.deb` would demand a
+     glibc no normal Debian/Ubuntu user has, and ships an empty `Depends`.
+  2. distrobox shares `$HOME` (and therefore the repo's `target/`) with the host,
+     so a host build links Arch-compiled C objects into the "Debian" binary.
+
+### One-time provisioning inside the box
+
+```sh
+distrobox enter peerspeak-bookworm
+sudo apt update
+sudo apt install -y build-essential pkg-config clang libclang-dev \
+    libpipewire-0.3-dev libopus-dev libasound2-dev libxcb1-dev
+# clang/libclang -> pipewire-sys bindgen ; libxcb1-dev -> link
+curl --proto '=https' --tlsv1.2 -sSf https://sh.rustup.rs | sh -s -- -y
+source ~/.cargo/env
+cargo install cargo-deb
+```
+
+### The mandatory separate `CARGO_TARGET_DIR`
+
+Because distrobox shares `$HOME`, the repo's default `target/` is the **same
+directory** the Arch host builds into. If you run `cargo deb` without overriding
+the target dir, cargo will happily reuse Arch-built `.o`/rlib artifacts and link
+them into the Debian binary, producing a `.deb` that crashes or demands the
+host's glibc.
+
+Always point the build at a box-local cache:
+
+```sh
+export CARGO_TARGET_DIR=~/.cache/cargo-deb-targets/peerspeak
+```
+
+(Run `cargo clean` first if you ever suspect a polluted target dir.)
+
+## glibc floor
+
+The `.deb` is built against the build box's glibc, which becomes the install
+floor (`libc6 (>= 2.36)` lands in `Depends` via `$auto`):
+
+| Build box            | glibc | Runs on                              |
+|----------------------|-------|--------------------------------------|
+| `debian:12` (current)| 2.36  | Debian 12+, Ubuntu 24.04+ (glibc ≥ 2.36) |
+| `ubuntu:26.04` (old) | 2.43  | Ubuntu 26.04+ only — too narrow, abandoned |
+
+If a friend is on something even older than Debian 12, drop the floor further by
+recreating the box from an older base image and rebuilding.
+
+## Runtime `Depends` / `Recommends`
+
+- `Depends = "$auto"` — cargo-deb runs `dpkg-shlibdeps`, which discovers the
+  linked shared libraries (PipeWire, Opus, ALSA, xcb, glibc, …) automatically.
+- `Recommends = "pixelpass, mpv"` — `pixelpass` provides in-room screen sharing
+  and `mpv` is the screen-share viewer (these are companion programs invoked as
+  subprocesses, not linked libraries, so they are Recommends not Depends).
+
+See `pixelpass`'s own `packaging/debian/README.md` for why **its** `Depends`
+lists the whole GStreamer stack explicitly.