feat(gui): system tray with opt-in close-to-tray setting

Add a StatusNotifierItem tray (ksni — pure-Rust over the zbus stack
notify-rust already pulls; only new crate is the pastey macro helper).
The icon reflects host/viewer status via its tooltip and offers
Show / Quit; it runs on its own thread, channel-wired to the egui app.

Add a Settings screen with a persisted toggle 'keep running in the tray
when I close the window' (config.toml [gui] close_to_tray), defaulting
OFF so the close button quits as users expect. When ON, closing hides
to the tray on X11 / minimizes on Wayland (which has no protocol to hide
a toplevel) and keeps any live stream running. If no tray is present the
close behaves normally, so the window can never be stranded.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

Cargo.lock

@@ -2902,6 +2902,19 @@ version = "3.1.0"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "e2db585e1d738fc771bf08a151420d3ed193d9d895a36df7f6f8a9456b911ddc"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "ksni"
+version = "0.3.4"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "a7ca513d0be42df5edb485af9f44a12b2cb85af773d91c27dc796d1c58b78edc"
+dependencies = [
+ "futures-util",
+ "pastey",
+ "serde",
+ "tokio",
+ "zbus 5.15.0",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "kurbo"
 version = "0.13.1"
@@ -4021,6 +4034,12 @@ version = "1.0.15"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "57c0d7b74b563b49d38dae00a0c37d4d6de9b432382b2892f0574ddcae73fd0a"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "pastey"
+version = "0.2.3"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "2ee67f1008b1ba2321834326597b8e186293b049a023cdef258527550b9935b4"
+
 [[package]]
 name = "pem-rfc7468"
 version = "1.0.0"
@@ -4149,6 +4168,7 @@ dependencies = [
  "eframe",
  "iroh",
  "iroh-tickets",
+ "ksni",
  "nix 0.30.1",
  "notify-rust",
  "pipewire",
@@ -7181,6 +7201,7 @@ dependencies = [
  "rustix 1.1.4",
  "serde",
  "serde_repr",
+ "tokio",
  "tracing",
  "uds_windows",
  "uuid",